The Gram Life

In Honor of Breast Cancer Awareness


A friend of mine brought this article to my attention ...and it struck a chord. The media has sensationalized what we are really fighting for. .....

You can’t tell if you have breast cancer from an examination from your doctor. But you have to have one anyway. You can’t tell if you have breast cancer from an ultrasound. But you have to take one anyway. You can’t tell if you have breast cancer from a mammogram. But you have to take one anyway, and even then, after you’ve been examined, poked and prodded, squeezed and compressed, the best you can get is an guess. A suggestion. Or in my case a “you need to get a biopsy.” And then you find yourself staring up at the pock-marked ceiling of a Women’s Center, trying to remain calm as the side of your breast and then the other goes numb, and you feel a slight bit of pressure and the insertion of a needle, go once, twice, three times to take samples of the lumps that have your doctors frowning with concern.


Breast Cancer is a big deal and we are all affected by it, directly or indirectly. It is not just all about the pepto pink, it is about raising awareness. 1 in 8 women will be diagnosed with breast cancer in her lifetime(according to the American Cancer Society), and we are all at risk for just being women (men get breast cancer too). Spread the word and do your breast exams.

International Day of the Girl

This is a fashion blog after all, but i have been extremely reluctant to blog or even tweet about anything that isn't of grave importance...at least to me. Being in this heightened state of awareness is emotional draining and physically exhausting and maybe one day i will blog again about the fun things in life but for now I speak my piece.

Today is the first ever  International Day of the Girl; and i thought I would mark it with 2 stories.
  1. 14 year old Pakistani girl shot in the head by the Taliban for being a feminist blogger.  She expressed her concerns over the Taliban's movement to crackdown on education and basic civil rights of girls.....Education is power.
  2. The Connecticut supreme court overturned the rape of a disabled 26 year old woman who cannot speak and is only able to move her right index finger. The initial guilty verdict was overturned because in Connecticut; women are presumed to be in a constant state of consent unless they explicitly state otherwise. No force, no bruise, no rape?